Are You Doing Parenting The Right Way?

This is a question that is constantly rattling my brain. I am sure I am not the only parent that feels this way. 

My daughter is getting ready to turn four years old. She is in a phase where naps do not work. She wants to always do things herself. She just wants to be a big kid. She is my first and only child. Sometimes that makes it really hard to discipline her. It is not always best to use tricks that worked when I was a kid. Times have changed even in the last twenty years. When I was a kid we played outside much more. When I got in trouble I would get grounded. Grounding consisted of me spending time in my room. No TV or toys or games. Technology was just starting to really take off. Now of days grounding kids does not have the same effect. Kids are starting to use game consoles and cell phones at even earlier ages. They spend a lot more time inside. My daughter plays on the xbox and knows how to fully work the system at three years old. When she was one she could unlock my iPad and iPhone. 

This is just one of many parenting issues that everyone does differently.

In the comments tell me how you discipline your kids.

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"It doesn't matter how slow you go, as long as you don't stop." - Confucius

The Benefits of....

In honor of Mothers Day I thought I would share with you the benefits I get from being a mother. I am lucky to spend the majority of my days with my daughter. She is my whole world and I wouldn't know what to do without her.

-You have someone to hug and kiss every night.

-Someone loves you no matter what.

-I have an excuse to act like a child sometimes.

-I stay more active.

-Most of all I have a reason to smile everyday.

 

I enjoyed every second with my daughter this weekend. I want her to stop growing up so fast.

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"It doesn't matter how slow you go, as long as you don't stop." - Confucius

Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day is a holiday that I am sure has a significant meaning. However, over time it has turned into one of the biggest hallmark holidays. They celebrate it with cards, candy, and flowers. It has made many people believe they can only celebrate it if they are in a relationship. I think Valentine's Day is a day to spread love. Maybe you don't have a significant other but you can share your love with family or a friend. Tell someone how much they mean to you and that you love having them in your life. I am excited to spend the holiday with my family.

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"It doesn't matter how slow you go, as long as you don't stop." - Confucius

3 Reasons I Love Colorado

I love Colorado. More specifically I love Colorado winters. When I was younger the first thing I wanted to do after High School was to get out of Colorado. That is exactly what I did for a little while. However, I found myself back here again and don't know if I will ever leave.

These are my top three reasons for not wanting to leave Colorado.

1. I love freshly fallen snow. Before anyone has walked or driven through it.

2. When the trees and bushes freeze. It makes everything look so peaceful and beautiful.

3. Sunsets and Sunrises. Even more so when it is right over the mountains. I love the colors in the sky. 

Are there things about where you love that makes you stay there?

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"It doesn't matter how slow you go, as long as you don't stop." - Confucius

Movies and Music

I know I have talked about music a lot in the past. One of the other activities I love participating in is going to the movies. Im not sure if it is the popcorn or the limited distractions that draws me in but I love it! There are movies coming out this year that I am extremely excited for. One of which is already out, Night At The Museum, but I am waiting for it to hit our dollar movie theater. I loved those when I was younger and I am interested to see where they take this one. 

Some movies I am excited for this year are:

Inside Out

Insurgent

Black or White

50 Shades of Grey

The Boy Next Door

The Wedding Ringer

Pitch Perfect 2

Most of which are out right now or come out soon.

What movie are you looking forward to this year?

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"It doesn't matter how slow you go, as long as you don't stop." - Confucius

My First Memory

My first memory as a person is from the day my brothers were born. It isn't very big but it is kind of cool. I remember being at home with my grandparents while my parents were at the hospital. After they had been born we got a call saying we could come see them. All I remember is standing in front of our mirror/hat rack with my Papa. I was putting on a hat because that is what he was doing. I know he was standing behind me. I even remember the shirt he was wearing. That is the last thing I remember. 

What is your first memory?

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Ten Things Hollywood Predicted 2015 Would Have

As some of you know when Back To The Future II was released back in 1989 They travel to the future to the year 2015. I thought this would be kind of a fun post to do since we have hit that year mark. A couple of these things might be accomplished this year but for the most part I think there will be a while before a lot of it happens.

1. Hoverboards

2. Flying Cars

3. Mr. Fusion - For those who don't know what this is. It is a machine that turns your garbage into energy.

4. Pepsi Perfect - I don't know if there is anything special to the Pepsi itself but it sure does look cooler.

5. Food Hydrator

6. Automatic Dog Walkers

7. Self Drying Jackets

8. Holographic Movie Posters

9. Phone Glasses

10. Power Laces -  This is the coolest one out of all of them in my opinion. Nike just released a stemming that these will be released sometime this year.

What would you be most excited to see happen?

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The Best Way To Respond To......

The best way to respond to the unexpected.

This week I am faced with probably one of the biggest challenges of my life. I can't share to many details on the situation as it is personal. When I first found out that I was going to have to go through this event I was terrified (and still am). One thing that is constantly going on in our house is preparing for the worst outcome. The problem with this upcoming situation is that I have no way of knowing what the outcome will be until it happens. The thing is there is no way to respond to the unexpected. All you can do is consider all the possibilities and hope for the best. Unfortunately life likes to through the unexpected into the mix at least a few times (At least in my case). I found a quote the other day that described my thinking perfectly. It was "Unexpected results and problems are part of life. Never lose hope in any condition because darkness of night is always followed by light."

Keep my family and I in your prayers this weekend. This is just one more chapter in my life and I plan on making the best of it as possible.

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"It doesn't matter how slow you go, as long as you don't stop." - Confucius